Something in your post made me think that, at least for me, is has to do with a consistent logic. Like, for a trio of relatively smart and thoughtful women, who know what happened to each other, it doesn't make sense that they wouldn't move on or at least try. Generally everyone wants to feel loved and appreciated and being dumped for another girl doesn't exactly do that. One might even feel a bit betrayed if the person they were in love with went through the same things with someone (or, in this case, multiple someones) else. If it was one person idealizing the image of a perfect first love, then fine, that happens, but that guy has proved not all that perfect. People fall in love with wrong people and get hurt as a consequence, but for an otherwise emotionally stable and mature person it doesn't make sense to hold on to that image for all that time. Now that I thought about it, that's what I ended up with. Thanks for' triggering' all that thinking:)
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Date: 2014-04-29 09:25 pm (UTC)Now that I thought about it, that's what I ended up with. Thanks for' triggering' all that thinking:)